The unity candle ceremony has been performed in so many weddings for quite a long time now. It is durable as it sends a weighty message and it is beautiful. It is because of its frequent and long use that some couples no longer see the ceremony as something special and unique; so they no longer want to use it in their own wedding. They are in search for an alternative to using unity candles for weddings. There is another explanation why some couples no longer want it. They have been to weddings and seen some things go wrong with the ceremony and don’t want to have the same experience. So the couples are in search of something momentous minus the blunders.
There have been different alternatives to the unity candle that have every so often been recommended as replacement, our opinion is the one that comes nearest to represent the same thing to the candle ceremony is the Wedding Sand Ceremony. A few years back the sand ceremony was broadcast in an early morning show and ever since it has been more often used in weddings.
This is how it is performed. You start with three wedding sand ceremony vases; two of the vases are smaller in size. Two different colored sand fill the two smaller vases which stand for your two families similar to the taper candles. Usually the bride’s mother and the groom’s mother carry in the vases as they are led in. The mothers then place the vases on a small table on either side of a larger sand ceremony vase.
In the ceremony the officiant pronounces a few words regarding the couple becoming as one, the couple then move over and empty their vases with sand into the larger vase mixing the sand as they do. Similar to the candle ceremony, background music can play or a singer can render a song. After the couple is finished, they return and stand in front of the officiating person and the wedding rites continue.